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Why I choose to work with women on developing, sharing and experiencing their sensual and sexual nature:

I Find I have great compassion, tenderness, kindness and ability to give healing, and nurturance as well as to surround women in warmth and tenderness.



I resonate with women. I run strong on some "male" energy and am rather empowered in my own sexuality and have been told that carries over and inspires women to find the strength of their own passions. I am also highly "feminine" in my physical manifestation.

I do not seek out women exclusively in my personal sexual life. Individual women do kindle feelings in me and I appreciate women deeply and enjoy their varied attractiveness. I value sensuality in both men and women. It's the personality in the person that draws me.

Seeing a professional is sometimes a wonderful option for women who need nurturing touch without the restrictions of societies stereotype...

Women are able to explore in this setting without upsetting the egos in their primary relationships. Women without a relationship are able to get their needs met safely, without resorting to one night stands, blind dates or beginning relationships which they are not ready to embark on.

My Philosophy on Women and sexuality in our society

I believe that society, while it is changing, and has changed dramatically for women, still categorizes women's sexuality. Now, instead of the pressure to not be openly sexual, there is pressure to be highly sexual and achieve many many other things at the same time. This is often more than any human could do at one time, regardless of gender. Women feel tremendous pressure to be sexual in the way that people expect and want it to look, or what people have learned from watching sexuality in our media. Most women are more sexual and sensual than they realize, but that sexuality and sensuality doesn't look like something they've seen and they don't recognize it for what it is.

I believe:

Women NEED to be in touch with this part of themselves to be healthy.

Women are much more sexual and sensual than they or people in their lives recognize.

Yes, there are women who are NOT interested in sex - but almost always for most women, most of the time they would like to be more sexual/sensual if there were not obstacles in their way.

I believe most women cut themselves off from their sexual and sensual nature, to varying degrees for most of their lives.

So, Why do women cut off their sexuality?

Fear of the power of their own appetites, of losing themselves
 Fear of damaging the ego of the men in their lives
 Fear of acting on fantasy that isn't congruent with their reality
 Fatigue
 Body image - they belief that they have to look a certain kind of "sexy" to experience their sexuality
 Not really knowing what they want, that it exists/ how to get there
 No one in their life at the moment to share it with
 Imbalance in their and their partner(s) desires and judgment that goes with that imbalance (i.e. frigid/whore complex)
 Finding it too much work to communicate their needs to their partner(s)
 Not getting their basic touch needs met first (tenderness, relief from stress/pain)
 Lack of physical exercise and good food to sustain them
 Stereotypes that say wives and mothers aren't sexual
 Their spouse is uncomfortable with their true sexuality
 Other problems in the relationship
 Financial or survival issues leading to the fight or flight response
 Medications and health concerns which diminish libido (antidepressants, certain birth control, many many others)


Special themes for women

Sensual touch for women - touch as good as chocolate.

The sensual touch for women session - if touch were a food, it'd be dark chocolate and champagne. Rich and rare and decadent....

This work is relaxing for the whole body, starting with a floating bath which you can enjoy either solo or with me bathing you gently. Allow yourself to be immersed in tlc, let go of expectations of "doing" anything or having to give back at the end. Here, there is no worry about body image, just floating and nurturing. Then, we move to the table and I will pamper you with overall sensual touch for your whole body and self. Moving quietly and gently to your breasts and your belly, inner thighs and between.

Here, you don't have to respond in any programmed way, just enjoy sink in.. and when you've reached your bliss place just say "thank you". You don't have to put on a show, you don't have to act, you don't have to fake anything. All you need do, is enjoy, sink in and let the experience take you where it will. This session is heaven regardless of your preference for male or female partners.

All touch will proceed at your comfort level. This session is best enjoyed with both practitioner and recipient in the nude, or lightly draped if you prefer. Please let go of any ideas of not enjoying your body until it looks a certain way. just be! just feel! just enjoy.... you deserve pleasure and relaxation.

Cuddling for women... Sensual touch

So, for men it's the make out session, for women, the cuddling and cradling session.... If you are needing to be petted, cuddled, cradled, pampered, hair petted, held.. This is the place to start...Start by getting comfy in a big fluffy robe, or nude if that's your way of relaxing... let me hold you, listen to you if you need to talk, and pamper you.

This session allows for kissing and gentle making out, if you find you've relaxed and are wanting... with no pressure, no expectation on my part... just time and flow and comfort.... warmth and kindness and sensuality....

This session flows at your pace, your timing and can be very interactive if you are feeling the craving. Come in, be pampered and play....

Women's health session - sensual touch

My woman's health session has been developed over time with training from my previous career in massage (breast massage and pelvic floor work), learning from my childbirth teachers training, tantra, energy work, the Tao of sex writings, sensual touch internships... and most importantly from my experience in a woman's body.

This session starts with a soaking bath, where we can get comfortable with each other, and you can tell me a little about your body and your preferences in touch. Then, we move to the table and you'll receive some wonderfully specific touch to your belly, buns, breasts and between.

This session is more focused then the regular sensual touch session, with most of the touch focused on the above areas. we will concentrate on g-spot work, if desired, it's a great time to ask any questions you've never known who to ask about your body, to play show and tell, and to release any long held pelvic tension. You may or may not choose to experience a release during this time together. The session is highly pleasurable as well as sensually stimulating.

All touch will proceed at your comfort level. This session is best enjoyed with both practitioner and recipient in the nude, or lightly draped if you prefer. Please let go of any ideas of enjoying your body until looks a certain way. just be! just feel! just enjoy.... you deserve pleasure and relaxation.

Kind words of reflection on Ananda from soft soul amidst a awe inspiring journey:

"I have been working with Ananda for a few months now. As a married woman, it was a difficult search to find a practitioner who felt safe and nurturing. Although heterosexual (and bi-curious), I felt it might be less frightening to start with a female practitioner. I made the correct choice by finding Ananda. She has been a wonderful intimacy coach.

This started as a journey for me to find my own sensuality for the first time in my life. It's been a discovery of opening myself to new feelings and sensations in a safe and comfortable setting. Ananda is beautiful, knows how to make things fun, has a warm intimate touch, and she truly cares about each person she works with.

She makes me feel sexy as hell every time I see her and I thoroughly enjoy everything she has to teach me. Whether I am laughing, crying tears, or crying out in pleasure- she is always there for me in just the right way. You will never forget her eyes or the way her voice purrs once you've been with her!

Although my husband has chosen not to participate in our sessions, she always supportive of my home relationship. Her suggestions of things to try, books to read, and videos to watch continue to help us communicate better."