Offerings For Men
Why I choose to work with men on developing, sharing and experiencing their sensual and sexual nature: I, personally, enjoy men's energy greatly and think men are capable of so much more than even they realize. Some men have no person(s) in their life which whom to share the deeper sensual and sexual experiences a provider such as myself can offer. Some men wish to learn things from someone who is more advanced in her sexual techniques and sensual expression than women they know personally. Seeing a professional is sometimes the "best" option for men who don't want to lose the life they have built , but are seeking variety, new experiences, learning, tools and freedom of expression. If any of these apply to you, I look forward to sharing my time with you.  My philosophy on men and sex in our society:
I believe our society, while it is changing, still stereotypes and limits both male and female sexuality and sensuality. I believe men are just as imprisoned by these roles as women are. Because our society doesn't openly reflect and accept the range of human sexuality that has existed for as long as history has been recorded, men are forced to compartmentalize themselves and their sexual nature. In short many men don't have "good" options for the exploration and expression of their sexual selves.
I believe:
Many of men's valid needs for sensuality and sexuality are ignored and disparaged
Men receive very little support for their complete range of sexuality That while men are often visually based, they do not view women as only decorative but would prefer to be able to interact with them more deeply That many men are silenced when they try to speak about their sexual feelings They would love to express their feelings openly if they could safely Men are taught to express only that which the women in their life are comfortable hearing Men often gradually stop talking about these topics at all, because it's just too hard sometimes and not worth the risk of upsetting the balance in their homes Many good men are penalized for stepping out of relationships when there isn't a good alternative. Some men are manipulated and forced to chose between a life with a committed partner with the joys of sharing the journey of life and being labeled (an irresponsible child, not grown up, not a real man a deadbeat, etc.) Often men feel they must chose between being single, cheating, or cutting off their toes to fit their slippers (loafers) I do not believe men are the insensitive selfish brutes that people portray them as.
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